It's true , I am a new player. Some more info about realm : x4 top player 2m points .
Info about me: Beginner (180k points) , 8 provinces , 1 colony , 2mp and 2 tp. Right now I am on monarchy because it made :upgrading vassals more easily. Plus minor debuffs.
I started as a more aggressive player then went to defense because my neighbors have a army I can't beat. I have to destroy one of them though because he is a threat , a big one. Ih his army becomes able to destroy f7 I will greatly suffer.
That is why I need advice right now , military or economic growth?
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I forgot to mention : thank you very much for the information , I want to become a very good Imperia Online player , a very strategic one.