actually, you can:
1: found military posts further away from your empire so they cannot be found
2: send your troops in military expeditions as soon as they get out from the barracks
3: enter in a larger alliance
4: enter in dinastic marriages with potential enemies around you BEFORE they attack you
5: move your resources away so they have no incentive to attack you, only honor losses
6: keep your troops not mobilized as long as you can and then go back to 1 or 2
7: focusing on researches and buildings that give you FEW points so you can get outside of their range attack quicker
8: buy diamonds to capitulate (first time is for free)
1. I always find what I look for it's impossible to hide something if a player really looks for it.. in v5 we were scouting the entire map pixel to pixel to search for enemy colonies and armies.
2. Agree, though a big army is impossible to sustain without diamonds in v6. Military expedition should cost 2x less than a normal mission.
3. Agree
4. Who in their right mind would accept that marriage
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5. Agree
6. Agree
7. Disagree, this way you will never become a fast growing or a good player.
8. You should be able to play this game even without diamonds.