Well I just want to thank everyone here for the input. I recently crushed my foe and it was beautiful! I had about 50K (200K elites) troops in each category and 500 siege. Took about a week to build that up.
I first crushed his Army which was all in Province 8. Then I split up my army into 3 groups and pillaged all 6 of his provinces. Then when I was done with that I split my army up into 2 groups and sieged his castles 2 at a time.
End result... He ended up capitulating me and went on vacation.
Now If people will quit messing with me I can get back to farming.
Lol, nice work Silverdot! Talk about killing a guy. We've debated on whether total destruction was possible. That's about as close as you can get. Goodness. You beat him up, slept with his wife, spanked his kids, and then kicked his dog on the way out.